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		<description><![CDATA[<br /><br />You hear complaints about a worker you promoted to manager. At first he won your confidence. Now you&#8217;re having second thoughts. To solve the problem, you&#8217;ll need a measured response and well-crafted plan. Your options: • Be objective. Your first thought might be to dismiss the gripes and validate his promotion. Yet the complaints prove [...]<br /><br /><br /><br />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You hear complaints about a worker you promoted to manager. At first he won your confidence. Now you&#8217;re having second thoughts.</p>
<p>To solve the problem, you&#8217;ll need a measured response and well-crafted plan.</p>
<p>Your options:</p>
<p>•<strong> Be objective. </strong>Your first thought might be to dismiss the gripes and validate his promotion.</p>
<p>Yet the complaints prove the issue exists. The problem may lie with employees, the manager or a communication breakdown.</p>
<p>Keep an open mind.</p>
<p>•<strong> Check the source. </strong>Ask yourself whether complaints are coming from your superstars or chronic whiners, says Robert Barner, an expert in conflict resolution and author of &#8220;Bench Strength.&#8221;</p>
<p>Complaints from poor performers don&#8217;t make them invalid. Your new manager might need to rethink his coaching methods or find new ways to motivate.</p>
<p>•<strong> Hear them out. </strong>&#8220;Conduct informal (one-on-one) interviews with (each member) of the team,&#8221; Barner said.</p>
<p>Interviewing team members collectively promotes groupthink and lets members easily corroborate each other&#8217;s stories.</p>
<p>Interviewing one-on-one — including team members who haven&#8217;t complained — helps you see if a pattern exists, and whether gripes are legitimate, says exec coach Sharon Jordan-Evans.</p>
<p>If interviews reveal random complaints from the usual group of whiners, you and the manager have other issues to discuss.</p>
<p>•<strong> Check firsthand. </strong>Casually observe the manager in action &#8220;as he conducts a staff meeting, directs a project team or confers with a peer or direct report,&#8221; Barner said.</p>
<p><strong>Leadership Trouble?</strong></p>
<p>•<strong> Be proactive. </strong>Take the manager aside, outline the gripes and ask for input. Watch his reaction. The best performers &#8220;don&#8217;t easily become defensive in these discussions,&#8221; Barner said. &#8220;A good sign is when the manager asks probing questions to find out more about the issue.&#8221;</p>
<p>Share potential solutions, but be flexible. Let the manager offer fixes of his own, and work out a joint plan, Jordan-Evans says. Set a deadline for resolution.</p>
<p>•<strong> Monitor your tone. </strong>It&#8217;s a key part of your message.</p>
<p>People tend to mirror each other&#8217;s behavior in a conversation. Through your demeanor, you can influence the other person.</p>
<p>If things get tense, lower your voice, smile and project relaxation, experts advise. Make your case calmly.</p>
<p>•<strong> Cycle back. </strong>At a time agreed on by you and the manager, check with team members to see how things are going. Stick with one-on-one interviews.</p>
<p>If the problem persists, ask a supervisor whom the manager trusts to provide informal coaching, or bring in an executive coach, says workplace expert Jeff Gee.</p>
<p>If needed, have a human-resources exec draft a performance-improvement plan, Barner says.</p>
<p>•<strong> Do what&#8217;s needed. </strong>If no improvement occurs within your time frame, develop a plan to transition the leader. Your options are to transfer or demote him — or remove him from the firm.</p>
<p>The good news? Drastic steps are seldom needed, surveys show.</p>
<p>Strong hires who are worth promoting are usually flexible enough to learn from mistakes.</p>
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